What to expect in your initial consultation

In your initial consultation, the objective is to get a good idea of the situation. Yourlawyer will ask you questions to help him/her better understand you and your legalposition, taking into account your goals and concerns to find the best way forward.During your consultation, your lawyer will focus on gathering information about yourcase. This means you will need to answer questions about the nature and status ofthe relationship. This could include, for example, providing information aboutdependents, home ownership (if applicable) and/or contributions to the relationship.The topics below are a guide to what you may be asked about in a consult. Duration of the RelationshipMarital StatusDate of SeparationRelationship ContributionsExtraordinary Contributions to the RelationshipStatus of Separation – Finality and Property SettlementCurrent State of the RelationshipBeginnings of the Relationship (‘where you came from’)Potential Home OwnershipChildrenAssetsWills Read more about these below… Duration of the RelationshipThe lawyer will likely begin by asking about the length of the relationship. This includes whenyou met, when you began living together, and when you were married (if applicable). Thisinformation helps establish key timelines, which are often relevant for legal matters such asproperty division or spousal support. Longer relationships typically lead to more entangledfinancial and emotional ties, influencing how issues are resolved. Marital StatusIt’s essential for the lawyer to know your legal marital status—whether you are married, in ade facto relationship, separated, or divorced. Laws surrounding division of assets, spousalsupport, and parental rights can differ depending on this status. For example, de factocouples may not be entitled to the same property rights as married couples. Date of Separation The lawyer will ask when you and your former partner separated, and if you’ve established aclear ‘separation date’. This is critical, because the date of separation often marks the pointat which joint financial responsibilities end. It also serves as a reference for propertyvaluations and the length of separation, which could impact future legal steps like divorceeligibility. Relationship ContributionsThe lawyer will ask you about you and your partner’s contributions to the relationship. Thiscould mean financially, emotionally, and/or practically, and could include income earned,homemaking duties, childcare, and any sacrifices made for the benefit of the other partner’scareer. Understanding these contributions helps provide a fair context when dividing propertyor determining support. Extraordinary Contributions to the RelationshipHere, the lawyer will ask about any exceptional contributions you or your partner made, suchas a significant financial investment, caregiving during long-term or ongoing illness, orsacrificing personal opportunities to support the relationship. These contributions can impactproperty settlement or support decisions if they went beyond the ‘norm’ of the partnership. Status of Separation – Finality and Property SettlementThe lawyer will want to assess whether the separation is final or if there’s a chance ofreconciliation, as this will determine the tone and approach of the consultation. Your lawyerwill want to know the extent to which (if any) you and your partner have formalised orfinalised your separation. This could look like beginning to divide assets, discussing custodyarrangements, or any other practical steps toward formalising and finalising the separation. Ifnot, your lawyer may guide you on what to expect. Current State of the RelationshipAn understanding of your current relationship dynamics is vital. Is communication open andcooperative, or is there tension and conflict? This helps the lawyer anticipate potentialchallenges in negotiations or litigation. For example, a high-conflict relationship may requiremore structured and formal processes. Beginnings of the Relationship (‘Where you came from’)Discussing how the relationship started offers insight into its foundation. The lawyer mightask about your circumstances when you met—were you students, professionals, or inanother life stage? This background can influence how they frame your case, especially indiscussions about financial or personal sacrifices made during the relationship. ChildrenThe lawyer will ask about any children from the relationship (and other relationships, ifapplicable), including their ages, living arrangements, and needs. Topics like custody,visitation schedules, and child support are essential components of separation or divorce. Ifchildren are involved, their welfare becomes a central concern in legal proceedings, anddecisions will prioritise their best interests. AssetsThe lawyer will ask for details about the assets you and your partner own individually orjointly. This includes bank accounts, investments, superannuation, vehicles, and anysignificant personal possessions like jewelry or artwork. They’ll also inquire about debts orliabilities tied to these assets, as these are considered in property settlement. A clearinventory of assets helps determine what is subject to division and what might remainseparate. If there’s uncertainty, the lawyer can guide you on gathering the necessarydocumentation.A significant part of the assets discussion is home ownership. If you and your partnerowned or still own a home, the lawyer will inquire about details such as whose name is onthe title, the mortgage status, and any significant renovations or investments made in theproperty. Real estate often represents the most significant shared asset, making its divisiona primary focus in separation proceedings. Wills and SuperannuationThe lawyer will inquire whether you or your partner have existing wills and, if so, whetherthese documents have been updated to reflect the separation. A will drafted during therelationship may no longer align with your wishes, especially concerning property distributionor guardianship of children. The lawyer will most likely emphasise the importance of revisingor creating a will to ensure your estate is handled according to your current intentions.Superannuation is another critical area the lawyer will look at with you, as it often forms asignificant part of a couple’s assets – superannuation is usually part of a property settlement. CostIn the first consultation, there’s no doubt you will be wondering what level of investment isrequired. Our base rate for separation/property settlement cases is around $4000, but thisfigure can change depending on the complexity of the matter: for example, if you and yourformer partner or spouse are on good terms and can amicably agree to a simple assetdivision, the figure is unlikely to increase by much (if any). On the other hand, being ondifficult terms with your former partner/spouse, if your former partner/spouse is resistant,and/or having difficulty reaching an agreement can all complicate the matter and will mostlikely increase the cost of engaging a lawyer. BillingWhile some legal services
When creating a Power of Attorney, beware of this…

I wanted to share a story with you as a past client—a tale that, while seemingly simple,carries a lesson about saving time and money.This client (the parent of adult children) had drafted a Power of Attorney (POA) whichblocked their children’s ability to help them. Here’s what happened and how to prevent thisfor you.Imagine fast forwarding your life and after years of hard work, you decide it’s time to settleinto a comfortable retirement. You’ve thought of everything: a cozy home, a garden to tendto, and time spent with loved ones. However, often one thing gets overlooked, includingupdating the Power of Attorney to reflect one’s current needs.As you might know, nursing homes require you to have a Power of Attorney in place, howeverin this instance our client’s POA was only allowed to be activated should the parent beincapacitated. The family didn’t realise it had this clause until the children went to act ontheir parent’s behalf.You can imagine how inconvenient that was for all involved, then trying to carry out everydaytasks such as going to the bank on their parent’s behalf only to be knocked back…(Something that a normal POA would allow the grown children to do. Not in this case.)We were engaged as the client’s new firm and thankfully we were quickly able to review andupdate the POA. To be honest, I’m unsure why it wasn’t considered in the original will and POA. Hopefully, you or someone you know will find this lesson useful.Have you got a question of your own on the matter? Click below to book a complimentary15 min chat with one of our solicitors, to see if we can help you with any of your legalmatters. Book hereSee our YouTube channel for more information regarding nursing homes, wills and POA’s.https://www.youtube.com/@FennellyLegal